When she says ‘I just don’t see you that way’ or ‘I like you, just not in that way…’
What she really means is: You are in the friend-zone.
This is, one can assume, the red zone for guys when it comes to dating. It’s kind of sad, to see a guy like a girl just to be placed in the friend zone. It is a tricky place, one from which only few manage to come back wholehearted. And truth be told, there are basically two major reasons guys get friend-zoned.
One, they might not be attractive enough just to that specific girl. And two, they might not be boyfriend material according to her. Don’t take this personally. You might be a real hunk of a man, but lets not forget that attractiveness is a subjective factor for women.
It depends upon a lot of factors that vary from person to person, from different age groups and so forth.
If one girl finds bulky guys attracted, another might find skinny nerds to be very hot and so forth. So when a girl gives you the signal that you are in the friend-zone for her, know she means she is just not that into you.
When she says ‘This is really not the time for me to be in a relationship, but perhaps in the future.’
What she really means is: I still don’t want to be in a relationship with you right now, but do carry on boosting my ego to date others.
This is also a major sign that the girl is really not into you. She is not just uninterested in you as of the moment, but she is also kind of using you to acquire the male attention and interest she wants coming her way to feel better about herself… to feel like she is dating material after all. She might take all the presents you so lavishly give her.
She might receive the compliments you throw her way with sweet comments and gestures. She might also appreciate the reasons you like her for… only to take it all for granted in the end just because she needs that boost for her own ego, to know she is worth dating and can move on to someone else.
She will walk with you under the moonlight, but will not date you. What more could it mean than the fact that she is not into you? - Continue reading on next page