1. Expecting him to read your mind
Women are more sensitive and nurturing in nature than men and might expect men to be the same way and just understand their needs but most men don't. If you want to be cuddled, don't magically expect him to do so just because you think he should, telling him 'I could really use a hug right now' won't hurt. Men are not mind readers, so if you have a specific need in bed or generally let him know and I'm sure he'll be happy to oblige instead of him trying to figure out the reasons of your mood swings. Communicate your likes and preferences.