7. Not taking care of yourself
It is a common practice by women, once they are in a long term relationship and they feel secure that the man is in it for the long run especially after marriage and kids, they let themselves go and feel there's no need to shave your legs, work out, wear nice outfits or look good just for your man, like you used to do in the beginning. Women defend this point by saying he should love me at my worst, for my natural look etc but hey, nobody's asking you to look like Barbie 24/7 all that is being asked is to at least look clean, smell nice, be healthy... just be presentable. Remember, now that the relationship has been going on for quite some time it is more important to keep things feeling 'sexy' and refreshing.