2. Being negative most of the time
Nagging is a huge turn off for men. Women should know that words like 'always' or 'never' are two extremely negative words to be used during a discussion, it will turn a discussion into an argument as hearing 'You're always late!' will immediately activate his defense mechanism and he'll try to bring up evidence from the past to prove you wrong, instead try saying 'I would like to spend more time with you, please come home early tomorrow, I miss you' This will not only make him feel important but he'll also consider your request. Just avoid constantly screaming, nagging and taunting him. Avoid the grouchy girlfriend syndrome by always whining, complaining and being negative about most things.