10 Reasons Why People With Anxiety Have Such A Hard Time Finding Love

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8. They always have a tendency to think that their partners deserve more than what they’re getting.

Because of their low self-esteem, their mind can trick them into believing that they are never worthy of a real relationship. They might think that their partners deserve more than having to date someone who is constantly anxious and afraid. While people with anxiety do have self-confidence issues, they can be some of the most selfless and thoughtful people in the world.

9. They hate the confrontations and conflicts that come with relationships.

They know that relationships can be messy. They know that nothing is ever perfect and that conflicts and arguments can arise even between the best of couples. People with anxiety know that these confrontations can trigger unwanted attacks in their mind, and they don’t want any part of it. They think that if they just stay away from relationships in general, maybe they can avoid the stresses of having to be in conflict with another person.

10. They don’t want to grow dependent on other people to help them with their anxiety.

Anxiety is a battle that these people have to deal with on a daily basis. A lot of times, they will make the choice to deal with this battle on their own. They value their independence, and they don’t want to grow reliant on another person to solve their problems on their behalf.

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