They’re too self-centered
If they don’t care about what makes you happy, how you’d like to spend the rest of the evening or which food you’d want to eat, they’re just focusing on themselves. Compromise just doesn’t seem to be their thing. It’s a red flag they aren’t that interested in what you want or feel.
All assumptions, no facts
If your partner doesn’t trust you, jumps to their own conclusions instead of clearing things out with you, they don’t sound like someone you should actually be with. Who would want to take the blame every time?
They make you feel shameful about your feelings
You shouldn’t be with someone who, after you open up to them emotionally, make you feel ashamed for it. Feelings aren’t meant to be justified, they just are. We’ve all felt this at some point in our relationship… laid our feelings to them then have them criticize them. That’s not a good sign.
They consider you inferior
When they talk down to you, consider what you do wrong, speak to you in that condescending tone…they aren’t partners to be with. Never considering you their equal but as someone inferior isn’t the way to go in any relationship. Next time they talk down to you, notice it. It’s a red flag that’s always there.
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You’ll find your way around a healthy relationship someday but only if you move on from such destructive ones by paying heed to any of these red flags. What other red flags have you come across? Let me know in the comments down below!