10 Relationship Rules I Wish I Knew 10 Years Ago

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6. I wish I had known forgiving was a favour I would give myself

Holding on to the pain and anger, driven from the way we have been hurt, poisons us slowly. It acts like a slow poison that we, so willingly, keep inside our bodies. It silently continues to rip us apart, whereas, we are thinking it is teaching our partners or exes a lesson.

Remember, your anger will not make a point and it will certainly not teach them a lesson, when it's their time to learn that lesson, that is when they will truly learn it. If anything, there are more chances of your forgiveness to teach them a lesson.

7. I wish I had known love never requires anyone begging for anything

Whether it is forgiveness or their time, if you are begging for it than you should know there is something severely wrong with your relationship. If a person loves you and sees how desperately you want something but doesn’t give it to you, there could only be two reasons;

A. He just can’t; take it as a sign and part ways.
B. He doesn’t exactly loves you. In that case, again, part ways.