Do you have an insecure boyfriend? Insecurities can kill a relationship before it even gets any chance to grow.
New relationships can be a beautiful thing. You're the center of someone's world and they want to do nothing other than spend time with you. Love has only just begun to blossom and in that time, you feel as happy as you can be. Now I'm not saying that love has to diminish over time, but it does become a less outwardly and more inwardly i.e. you're just expected to know that they love you.
They'll take you out on dates occasionally rather than every other night. No one wants the sparkle of their relationship to dim. They'll do anything to hold onto it and feel loved forever. Yet, can there be such a thing as too much love? Sadly, yes. I say sadly because it is indeed a bad thing. Too much love can result be suffocating. Having an insecure boyfriend will show you how.
1- He needs constant reassurance:
You two are in a relationship because you confessed your feelings for each other. Thus, you've basically told him that you really do like him. However, he needs you to say it over and over again and not in the romantic way you think. He wants you to remind him every single second of every single day that you don't love anyone but him.
For most people, if their partner isn't sincere with them, they'll walk away and never look back. They'll know that it didn't end because of them and that's assurance enough. Yet, an insecure boyfriend would need you to remind him that you love him.
Not because he denies the fact that you aren't sincere with him, but because they think you'll change your mind any second. You can't exactly blame them for this, but they need to understand that this is can drive people apart. - Continue reading on next page