The horrors of the "friend zone" are very real.
The friend zone is a tricky place. It’s reserved for only the most stubborn of men who just can’t take no for answer. Once you’re in the friend zone, it can be difficult to get out. Not every story is going to be like that Ryan Reynolds movie where the goofy nerd eventually does get out of the friend zone to win her love. Chances are, once you’re in the friend zone, you’re likely to stay there forever. Some girls will be nice about it and let you down easily.
Some more cruel ones will lead you on by the leash only to put you down multiple times over. Don’t fall victim to this. Seek the signs out early and avoid heaps of heartbreak and humiliation by moving on. You don’t deserve to suffer in the friend zone. Move on and find someone else you can fall in love with. Here are some texts that you receive when you’re being put in the friend zone. When you find yourself on the receiving end of messages like this, RUN AWAY!
1. “Good night!”
She’s just being courteous when she’s wishing you a good night. It’s not like she’s expressing endearment though. Otherwise, she would be texting “Sweet dreams!” or something endearing like that. While this may not be a deal breaker just yet, it’s not a good sign. Things aren’t looking good for you early on.
2. “Kinda busy right now sorry TTYL”
You’re not even worth a complete sentence. You’re not even worth proper punctuation. Hell, you’re only worth abbreviations at this point. No, this isn’t a good sign for you. You are getting deeper and deeper into the friend zone with texts like this. She doesn’t want to make time to talk to you, nor send you proper text messages.
3. “Oh, haha! LOL”
This can be tricky and difficult to spot. With replies like this, it means she’s being nice and she doesn’t want to leave you hanging without a reply, but she’s not interested in continuing the conversation either. She’s hoping that you’ll take the hint and be the first one to stop replying. She’s not having fun when she’s talking to you and she really wishes you would divert your attention elsewhere. - Continue reading on the next page