10 Things you need to remember before dating an independent girl who is used to being on her own

Misty Renee Posted 3 months ago
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It’s not easy being a strong and independent girl in this patriarchal world. Some of you will hate her for it. Some of you will assume that she’s the worst kind of person that you can interact or bond with. Some of you will consider her selfish and some of will actually believe that everything she says or does is just completely out of line. But even after all the resistance and hatred she faces, she will still find that special someone who truly values the kind of person she is, who will know that this girl right here is the real deal, and who will be open to the idea that their female counterpart can be a complete equal to them.

It’s not easy being a strong and independent girl in this patriarchal world. Some of you will hate her for it. Some of you will assume that she’s the worst kind of person that you can interact or bond with. Some of you will consider her selfish and some of will actually believe that everything she says or does is just completely out of line. But even after all the resistance and hatred she faces, she will still find that special someone who truly values the kind of person she is, who will know that this girl right here is the real deal, and who will be open to the idea that their female counterpart can be a complete equal to them.

So if you have found yourself a girl like this, then here are some things that you should always keep in mind before dating her:

1. She is strong…

There’s nothing that can break her down. There’s nothing that can stop her from speaking her mind. There’s nothing that can slow her down from growing and moving forward in all spheres of her life. And there might be moments when you start to get a bit intimidated by all of that.

2. But only because she knows how it feels to be weak

The past has taught her many things but the greatest lesson she got was to never allow anyone to treat her badly again. And to never fall down without getting right up and fighting back.

3. She is ambitious

Her life’s one main goal isn’t to get married, have kids, and settle down one day. While these things might be on the list as well, her true goal has always been to achieve everything she has ever dreamed of, to be at the top of her career, and to make sure that all her efforts reflect in her work. This might mean that she will sometimes place her career before her relationships in life.- Continue reading on the next page