Being someone who has seen relationships suffer since the age of 13 because of cheating. Being someone who has been cheated on with numerous people. I can tell you so much about it that no one can otherwise.
For starters, nothing good will ever come out of it. If you think you have suddenly found ‘LOVE’ somewhere, even though you are in a relationship. Trust me, that’s something your heart tells you in order to justify your act.
You have not suddenly found love, in fact, you have found the same intimacy and affection that you and your partner had stopped sharing. The intimacy and affection you both thought you were giving each other and that there was no need to put in continuous effort.
Relationships require and demand consistent, constant and conscious efforts. You need to take out time for your partner, be there for them, love and be loved. If you are not doing all of that, then you will get attracted to absolutely anyone, who gives you this, mistaking it for ‘true love’.
If you really want to save yourselves a lifelong regret or heartache, the following will help you immensely.
1. A conversation that will offend your partner needs to stop
‘Baby, it’s a harmless friendship!’
Don’t feed that lie to your mind or to your partner. You know in the heart of your heart when you cross the line. Stop it when you can feel this pull of attraction. It isn’t easy, I am not saying it is, but it is the right thing to do.
Whenever you feel like talking to this new person and feel like saying a few words of praise for them, go to your partner and say it to them. This new person is just an infatuation, don’t let a temporary thing mess your life’s constant. - Continue reading on next page