If he matches the description, you should stop trying.
It can be devastating to be in the early stages of a relationship and then discover that things aren’t going as well as you’d like them to be. This is supposed to be the happy and innocent stage of your relationship, and yet, you find yourself in deep emotional turmoil. You start to notice that your man is growing more distant and colder over time. You start to think that he may not be as into you as you initially imagined. You think to yourself that perhaps it just takes him more time to open up to other people. Maybe you’re the one who is expecting too many things at a pace that’s too fast for him to keep up with.
However, you should also be open to the possibility that maybe he’s not just that into you. Perhaps even early on in the relationship, he doesn’t see a future with you in it. If that’s the case, then you definitely shouldn’t prolong the agony of forcing a relationship that just doesn’t mesh well. Save yourself the heartbreak of having to move on from a man you’ve become completely invested in. Seek out the signs early on and break things off as early as possible.
1. He talks about other girls constantly.
It’s a blatant act of disrespect whenever he starts talking about other girls in your presence. Or perhaps he’s trying to send you subliminal messages that he’s interested in a lot of other girls who aren’t you. Maybe you should take the hint.
2. He doesn’t take time out of his schedule for you.
If a man were truly interested in you, he would move mountains and oceans just to be able to spend time with you. If you find yourself being someone who is always on the losing end in the relationship, then maybe he really isn’t as invested in your union as you are.
3. He doesn’t ask you about your life.
If a man truly liked you, he wouldn’t get tired of hearing about your thoughts and opinions. A man is always deeply interested in the women that they think they have potential to fall in love with. If he doesn’t ask you questions about your day or life in general, then he’s not interested. – Continue reading on the next page