Are you being friendzoned?
The friend zone is such a devastating place to be in. On the one hand, you feel like you have a foot in the door. You think you have an opportunity to get closer to landing the girl of your dreams, but she’s not having any of it. She’s put you in the zone where few can escape from. She’s decided that she wants nothing more than to be merely friends with you. While this can be a difficult truth to swallow, a lot of men will have to get over this fact quickly. Either they try harder in the unlikely event that she eventually gives in and lets you out of the friend zone, or just walk away and take this as a loss.
The problem is when a lot of men don’t even realize that he’s being put in the friend zone. A lot of men’s pride will blind them from the truth and not allow them to see that they don’t have a chance with a girl at all. These men have to be put out of their own misery. So if you feel like you’re a man who is potentially being blinded by his own ego, then read on and see if she sends you any of these text messages.
1. “Good night!”
This may be a little counter-intuitive, but just try to read between the lines. It may seem like she’s being intimate with you by wishing you a good night, but it’s nowhere near the level of endearment of saying “Sweet dreams!” or “Think of me while you sleep!”
2. “Sorry. I’m really busy at work. I’ll text you later on.”
If these girls were truly interested in you, then they would definitely make time to respond to your texts despite their busy schedules. If they were truly feeling swamped, it might take them a little longer to reply than usual, but they would never shun a conversation with you.
3. Short text messages.
If it feels like she’s only texting you haikus as opposed to what seems to be full-length novels, then that is definitely bad news for you. A girl who is truly interested in you would take the time and effort to put some depth into her text messages for you.
4. “Can’t text right now. I’m out with my friends.”
Similar to cases when she’s busy, if a girl really did like you and saw you as someone who could potentially be more than a friend, then she would definitely take the time to reply to your text messages. In fact, she would probably even brag to her friends that you’re texting her, and they would be coaching her on how to reply to you. - Continue reading on the next page