You might’ve had to do something for your guy at some point, which you didn’t really want to do, but since he asked you, you just couldn’t say no. For some of you (the lucky ones), this might not happen often, but for others, it’s a completely different story. He might be making you do all sorts of things for him, and for some reason you’ve played your part of a pushover exceptionally well. If there’s something you don’t want to do, you’re justified to say no. It won’t make you a bad girlfriend. In fact, if he were a good guy, he wouldn’t be asking you to do any of the following things;
Taking care of his laundry
You’re not his mom! You don’t have to do his laundry. He’s more than capable of doing it himself. Helping him out, on the other hand, is a different story. If he has a little too much on his hands, then you might want to help him with a couple of chores. But don’t enable him. You’ll be responsible for the consequences. One thing would lead to another, and he might depend on you for much more than you signed up for. Plus, if you share the chores, you’ll both have more time to spend together. It’s a win0-win!
Getting people stuff on his behalf
If he has difficulty shopping, you should openheartedly offer help. But, don’t take it on yourself to run around arranging presents for him to give out. This is his responsibility, not yours. With a little practice, he might get good at it. But if you don’t allow him to do it in the first place, being the amazing girlfriend you’re, you might as well have to amaze him all the time.