11 Ways to Make Sure He Stays Interested

Misty Renee Posted 9 months ago
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Stay interested in him if you want him to do the same for you.

Keeping a guy interested can feel like quite the challenge at times. Guys are much pickier than you expect them to be. And that reason, in itself, is enough for him to start losing interest. For us girls, this situation can be very difficult to handle, especially when the standard for what a man wants in a woman keeps changing constantly.

And it keeps pushing us towards extreme measures. Their likes seem to keep changing every minute. In one moment, they’re drooling all over that girl with the curvy body and in the very next, you see them running after the slimmest of all girls. So it’s not exactly a mystery why girls remain confused on how to keep their guy interested.

However, all hope still isn’t lost. There are still a few tried and tested methods which will keep him wanting more of you. Try out these 11 ways if you hope to keep your guy interested forever. But just remember never to lose your originality and actual personality along the way.

1. Stay Interested In Him

Is he a big football fan? Watch a game with him. Does he really love listening to music? Make him a CD with all his favorite tracks. Does he like cooking? Ask him to teach you his favorite recipe. Just by offering ways to stay involved with his life will make all the difference in the world.

He might not want to start sharing ALL of his activities with you, but the thought you place into being more present in his life won’t ever go unnoticed. Now make sure that if you’re making yourself this available and placing efforts to stay interested, he should be willing to do the same for you.

If he is never in the mood to show up for anything you like doing, then it’s probably time for you to stop showing up for him.

2. Don’t always remain Readily Available

Most guys love a challenge. So if he starts feeling like you’re always willing, ready, and available for him, he might start to lose interest. He wants to know that you have a life of your own. And he wants to feel that he will always get his due space in the relationship.

By always answering all his calls at the first bell and agreeing to meet him ANY time he asks, you’re basically making him feel like your life is centering on him. Or even worse, he might start to believe that you never have anything exciting going on in your life. A person like that doesn’t sound attractive to anyone.

And your partner might start feeling the pressure of being your only source of entertainment or joy in life. Become the source of your own happiness. Stop sitting around, just waiting for him to call. Step out and start living your life! - Continue reading on next page