Ladies, what turns you off the most?
A common woman will have somewhat of an idea with how she wants her man to be like. Everyone has their idea of a “type” in some shape or form with whom they can be compatible. For instance, some women are only looking for men who are charismatic, ambitious, good-looking, talented, etc. While a lot of us tend to focus on positive attributes when scouting for prospective mates, there are also lots of things we don’t want to see in our potential partners. These are called turn-offs.
A lot of us will have our deal breakers when it comes to relationships and partner selection. Sure, he may be cute and smart, but he has bad body odor. Yes, he’s talented and very communicative, but he is kind of lazy and passive. For all the men out there who are in the market for a quality woman, then this article is definitely for you. This aims to shed light on the situation of your romantic life.
Perhaps you have found yourself to be on the unlucky side of love. Maybe you have found that girls turn away from you once they get to know you better. You’re at a loss and you don’t know what you’re doing wrong. You so desperately want to find love but you don’t know how to go about it. Well, it’s fairly obvious that you are the problem here. You are the common factor in this equation, and maybe there are some aspects of your personality that just need fixing. You never know you may be doing some seemingly innocent things that are damaging your chances of attracting the girls that you like. Perhaps you are doing some things that are turning them off without you knowing it.
If you find yourself guilty of committing some of the items that are listed on here, then you need to make the necessary adjustments. You don’t have to change your personality per se, you just have to make sure that you avoid doing any of the things that turn these women off the most. Here are the most common things that women get turned off by:
1. Poor etiquette and manners.
Nobody likes to be with a man who has bad manners. Men should always be acting gentlemanly and respectfully towards the women that they are with. If you have poor etiquette, then you would be hard pressed to find a woman who would like you.
2. Constant nagging.
Constant nagging is a sign of passive-aggressiveness and no one ever likes being around that kind of behavior. It shows that you are constantly irritated by things, but you aren’t aggressive enough to do anything about it except complain.
3. Selfish behavior.
It can’t always be about you. in a relationship, it’s always a give and take kind of situation and you need to be thinking about your partner as well.
Clingy behavior isn’t cute. You get to a certain point in your adult life wherein independence and self-reliance become very attractive attributes. When you act a little too needy, then you can’t expect any woman to be able to count on you.