13 things to keep in mind when you finally realize he isn’t the one for you

Misty Renee Posted a year ago
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What have you realized?

We always talk about how difficult it is to have someone leave you, to have your whole world turned upside down by just this one person, and to collect yourself back up after that. But the truth is, it might even be more difficult for the person on the other end sometimes, the one who has to deliver this horrible message, the one who has to live with the thought of being the cause of someone else’s pain, and the one who just couldn’t make it work no matter how hard they tried.

There was a time when I used to believe that if you’ve been with someone for a few years, you automatically become destined to be partners for life. But as I grew up, I learnt how wrong I really was. I’m sure a lot of my readers have learnt that lesson too. So here are 13 things you should keep in mind when you realize that the person you’re with isn’t the one for you:

  1. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been with someone for a week, a month, a year, or even a few years. When you know you’ve found the one, time will be meaningless. And it’s completely possible to be with someone for the longest time and still realize that this is not what you wanted in life.
  2. You never meet people by accident. Every single person that crosses your path is there for a greater reason, a reason that you may not completely understand at first but a reason that will serve to make you stronger and wiser. And each person will help you experience life just a little bit different than you ever did before. - Continue reading on next page