14 ways to know that your guy has started to lose interest in you

Misty Renee Posted 2 months ago
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He finally started to pull away, it caught you by surprise. You tried to stop it from happening by being a little more outgoing and fun, by trying to change your overall look, or by giving him even more attention than you did before. And while these techniques might just work in a certain situation, the more likely outcome is that they won’t really have any effect on your guy.Every girl will meet a lot of different guys in her life. Some of them will come to make you realize what kind of guys you DON’T want or need. Some of them will come to teach you a few valuable life lessons. Some will have absolutely no impact.

And then there will be that one guy who you truly felt was the one, the guy who swept you off your feet on the very first date, the guy who you believed was absolutely perfect for you but sadly, he was also the guy who ended up losing interest in you after a while.

And while you were so absorbed in planning an entire future with him, you forgot to notice when his interest in you began to fade away, when he stopped listening intently to all your stories, and when he started to look for better options around him.

And when he finally started to pull away, it caught you by surprise. You tried to stop it from happening by being a little more outgoing and fun, by trying to change your overall look, or by giving him even more attention than you did before. And while these techniques might just work in a certain situation, the more likely outcome is that they won’t really have any effect on your guy.

Once he has lost interest, then there’s usually no going back. So stop putting yourself through all this trouble. Stop changing your own personality and look. And start looking for these signs to confirm whether it’s time to accept the reality and move on in your life:

  1. He keeps ditching plans with you

You called him up last night and told him all about this new fancy restaurant that opened up near your place. You asked him if he would like to go for lunch there the next day and he agreed to meet you there at 2pm. You’re there now.

You’ve been waiting for him since an hour only to receive a text at the last-minute, saying that he can’t make it, without any apology or an explanation. This isn’t the first time it has happened and you’re pretty sure it won’t be the last either. The truth of the matter is that if he was actually interested in being with you, he would take out the time to meet you or at least show up for the plans he agreed to no matter what.

  1. He keeps flirting casually with other girls in front of you

A little bit of flirting never hurts anybody. In fact, it can even be healthy for your relationship if someone other than your partner shows a bit of interest in you. You leave that moment feeling attractive and happy about yourself, while your partner might start to feel proud in knowing that their girl is in demand.

But when your guy has started to lose interest in you, flirting around can possibly take a dangerous turn. You’ve been noticing the way he looks at other girls, regardless of whether you’re with him or not. He flirts with them openly and without any hesitation. It started with a few smiles at first, but now he doesn’t even shy away from starting up a whole conversation.

He’s keeping his options open without even being subtle about it. And even though it has started to bother you, you don’t want to be the girl who creates a scene in public. So the best thing to do at this point is to just accept what’s coming ahead and realize the fact that things aren’t getting any better between you two.

Also read: 8 Signs That Your Man Is Definitely A Keeper

  1. He has started going to events without you

The weekend is finally here and you’ve been hoping that he’ll call you up to make some plans. You already talked to him on the phone a day before and he told you he would inform you of some plan as soon as it gets confirmed. It’s Sunday morning now and you still haven’t heard anything from him. So you text him to know what’s up only to find out that he was at a party with his friends last night, and that he’s too tired to leave his house now.

This isn’t the first weekend where he blew you off or went somewhere without inviting you as well. The truth is you don’t even know who these ‘friends’ are that he’s been hanging out with all the time and you feel hurt in knowing that he keeps excluding you from his life.

If he actually wanted to be with you, he would have invited you. Maybe the time has come to pick up on his hints and move on with your life. - Continue reading on the next page