15 Facts You Need To Know About Dating Someone Who Prefers To Be Alone

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Some people like to be surrounded by people while others prefer to just be alone. It can be difficult to find out how to deal with people who are different than what we’re accustomed to. The key is in being empathetic and understanding when you’re dealing with someone who isn’t like yourself.

Not all people are cut from the same cloth. We all have our quirks and personality traits that differentiate us from others. Some people are uptight, while others a lax. Some people are easy-going, while others are always high-strung. Some people like to be adventurous while others find peace in safe spaces.

Some people like to be surrounded by people while others prefer to just be alone. It can be difficult to find out how to deal with people who are different than what we’re accustomed to. The key is in being empathetic and understanding when you’re dealing with someone who isn’t like yourself.

Romantically, you won’t always be drawn to someone who is like you. As cliché as it sounds, you never have control over who your heart chooses to fall for. If you just so happened to fall for a girl who is comfortable in her own solitude, then there are some things that you need to know about her. Here are the 15 facts you need to know about dating someone who prefers to be alone:

1. It will be difficult to gain her trust at first.

She’s a very guarded girl. She doesn’t like to invest herself emotionally into anyone else because she doesn’t want to let down. She likes to protect herself as much as possible.

2. She doesn’t want to be dependent on anyone other than herself.

She doesn’t like the feeling of helplessness and she hates that she has to rely on other people to solve her problems for her. She likes to take on her problems on her own.

3. She has learned to be independent.

She has had to learn how to fend for herself because she hates being vulnerable to anything. She is perfectly capable of doing chores on her own and solving her own problems. She’s most likely to be a well-functioning human being who is taking life head on.

4. She doesn’t need you in her life, but there’s a possibility of her wanting you to be in it.

She’s very independent and she really doesn’t need a man to be at her side. However, if the right man comes along, she’s open to the idea of getting into a relationship with him.

5. She’ll push you away constantly.

If she lets your foot into the door, then don’t be surprised if she closes the door abruptly. It’s her way of guarding herself from pain. She will try to push you away because she’s scared you’ll end up hurting her. - Continue reading on the next page