Remember, mere insecurities can lead to a lot of pain and suffering.
Most of us girls have been in a relationship that started delightfully but as the time passed, we found out that we’re dealing with an insecure man. Insecure boyfriends not only threaten your freedom but also your emotional well-being and the sense of peace.
We all need attention and substantiation but the imbalance of those two aspects is wicked. It might feel good to get a guy’s attention 24/7 but soon, it becomes a nightmare that you cannot wake up from.
In most cases, you find out that your boyfriend is insecure when it’s too late and you’ve already invested a lot of time and energy into the relationship. In order to save you from such a conundrum, we’ve compiled a list of 15 signs that are sufficient to tell if your boyfriend is insecure. So girls, look out for these signs before getting emotionally and physically attached to your partner:
1. He has a limited social circle
One of the first signs in identifying an insecure boyfriend is that he doesn’t really hang out with other people much. Most of the times, he is with you and demands that you spend most of your time with him too. Moreover, insecure boyfriends do not get involved in engaging activities such as sports or gym. Another sign is that he used to do all those things but slowly stopped having a life wanting to spend every second of his day with you.
2. He is jealous or uncomfortable with your friends
Another grave sign is the jealousy. Jealousy that is unwarranted. Insecure boyfriends are jealous when you spend even a little time with your friends including female ones. They complain that you are not giving them enough time or priority. When he is not around, he is constantly checking up on you in the form of texts and calls in order to know your whereabouts. Sometimes, the constant attention does make you feel special, but don’t be fooled, it is always toxic.
3. He is always seeking validation
Men with healthy emotional state do not need their partner’s validation at every step. However, insecure men are always seeking validation. Asking questions such as “do you love me?” “how much do you love me?” “do you find me attractive?”
Basically, insecure boyfriends are always fishing for compliments and positive affirmations. That is usually because of the fact that they have low self-esteem. – Continue reading on the next page.