15 Signs That He’s Not Mature Enough For You

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Ladies, if you just so happen to be stuck in a relationship with a man with a body of an adult but with the mind of a teenager, then you probably know how much work it takes to keep a relationship going. If you think that you love him enough to endure his constant immaturity, then good for you. By all means, fight to preserve that love you have for him. But if it gets to a point where his immaturity is just too much to bear, then you might as well call it quits. Either give him the space to grow and mature on his own, or find another man who is ripe enough to be in a relationship with you.

Ladies, if you just so happen to be stuck in a relationship with a man with a body of an adult but with the mind of a teenager, then you probably know how much work it takes to keep a relationship going. If you think that you love him enough to endure his constant immaturity, then good for you. By all means, fight to preserve that love you have for him. But if it gets to a point where his immaturity is just too much to bear, then you might as well call it quits. Either give him the space to grow and mature on his own, or find another man who is ripe enough to be in a relationship with you. It’s hard to be babying a man constantly. Things can get particularly tricky down the line when you start getting serious with each other. If you ever decide to have a child in the future, you’ll end up having two babies instead of one. For most girls, that just isn’t cutting it. So how do you know when your man just isn’t ready to be with you? Here are a few things that you could look out for. Here are 15 signs that he’s not mature enough for you.

1. He’s always complaining about everything.

He never seems to be content about everything. Like the 5-year-old in the toy store, he always wants the best possible toy. He always fails to see the good parts in anything that he has in his possession.

2. He doesn’t treat you right.

A relationship should be fun, loving, and affectionate. If he always manages to mess things up for you, then he’s not really that mature. A real man realizes the importance of treating his lady with grace, class, and unconditional love.

3. He’s rude and insulting.

We’re all familiar with toddlers who haven’t yet learned their table manners and can be very blunt with how they talk or act. We shrug it off because they’re still toddlers and they’re still learning as they go along. It’s completely different when it’s your grown-up boyfriend who is being tactless with his words and actions.

4. He sweeps problems under the rug.

A real mature man would always choose to face his problems and worries head on. No proper functioning adult wants to just sweep problems under a rug in the hopes that they eventually go away.

5. He keeps whining about his job.

At least he has a job, right? No. It’s okay for a man to be stressed out with a job, but only immature men continue working jobs that they can’t seem to find fulfilment in. Emotionally mature men understand that having a fulfilling career is more important than having a stable one.- Continue reading on the next page