15 Things Guys Will Actually Do When They’re Into You

Kaetlyn Summers Posted a year ago
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Is he into you?

We all have those several guys around who throw subtle hints at us and kind of tell us that they like us. We can’t always be sure due to multiple reasons. Usually the first part of a relationship start with curiosity and a lot of butterflies in your tummy.

The thing is that when you are having those butterflies in your tummy, it is more like you are losing your common sense and you cannot tell whether the guy actually wants you or not. It is natural and it is a very understandable if you end up believing that the guy actually want to have you in his life and he isn’t just playing.

There are many ways through which you can tell whether a guy is playing with you or he actually wants to be with you. Now there are 15 different ways through which you can actually have a fair idea whether this specific guy that you are currently interested in wants to be with you for a very long time/in a permanent relationship.

This may also help you find out whether the guy is just playing with you or simply having a fling which may not mean too much to him in the future. We ladies don’t like to be a fling now don’t we?

1. We all want to feel special which is why we do not want to waste time on men who do not take us very seriously. The first way through which you can tell whether a man is really serious about you is the fact whether he invites you over for the very famous Netflix and chill. For some people it may not be a huge deal but actually if a guy invites you over to watch a movie with him and then chill it mean he is indirectly telling you that he likes you. For some people it may even mean that he just wants to spend time with you and not do anything sexual which is why if you get to hear this from a guy then there is a fair possibility that he might be into you. This is another hint of showing you that he is comfortable with you and he wants to have you over at his place.

Netflix and chill is very special it is not for every single person that you know so if a guy is using this on you it means he genuinely wants to spend some good quality time with you.

2. If he calls you at least once in a day it means he really cares for you. If you guys have just started to see one another and he calls you in three or four days, even that is fair enough because he doesn't want to freak you out by calling you every day.

3. If it invites you to do guy things like playing a game or simply watching a game then this is a huge hint that he is into you. Guys usually prefer to do guy stuff with other men but if he is ready to have his guy time with you then it means that you are really special to him.  

4. If he wants others to know about you and he wants to make it official then that is yet another hint that he does not take you as a joke or is not just wasting your time. If he is mentioning it again and again on social media or he is introducing you as his girlfriend to other people in his circle of friends then it means he is very serious about you.

5. If he keeps a check on you or he keeps checking up on you then this is another hint that he is very serious about you. Guys don't usually check up on just random women they only do it for those who they are serious about.

6. The guy is fooling around then he will not be concerned with your company or with your friends. But if a guy respects your friends and is really nice to them it means that he is seeking acceptance from other people you hang out with. Such a guy is not joking around so if the guy you are currently with is very nice to your circle of friends including men and women both and he is also very nice to your family it means that the man is trying to make a good image and is very serious about you.

7. Taking someone on a date is not a joke. If a person is taking you out on some very nice that's not too fancy and not too low but very nice comfortable place then it means that the person is really interested in you and is not joking.

8. Now for men night out with the boys is quite important. So if a man asks you to go out with him on a night out with his brothers or his friends it means that he wants you to be friends with them or at least get to know them. This is again an indication of a very serious man. Serious in terms of wanting a good relationship with you. - Continue reading on the next page