If They Don't Have These 20 Qualities, They Are Not Your Soulmate

Kaetlyn Summers Posted a year ago
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Just 'soulmate' things.

Sometimes, vague ideas in our minds block our power of making decisions and we end up being indecisive in matters of love and life. Being indecisive in matters of love can be dangerous; your soulmate can be standing right in front of you and you won’t know if they are the one or not.

Therefore, it is important you know what you want in the person you want to spend your whole life with. It is necessary you are familiar with all the traits you would love to have in your soulmate.

We can help you if you cannot decide; here are 20 qualities that you should look for in your soulmate. You can always edit the list!

  1. They Induce Magic In Your Life:

You should feel your life changing a little bit with your soulmate around. Their presence should brighten your days and cheer your mood for unknown reasons. If they are the one, their mere presence should make you feel like your life is suddenly free of all the problems and even if it is not, it won’t be difficult to get rid of them as long as your soulmate is around you.

You will feel them inducing magic in your life that you had never felt before.
  1. Passionate About Your Passions:

The right person for you will always be passionate about your passions. He or she will encourage you to do what you love to do without paying heed to how it may affect them or the relationship. They will want to see you move forward in life and will never do anything to pull you back.

A soulmate is someone who is supposed to be your best friend and a best friend will never do anything to make you feel discouraged. 

  1. Know Your Joys Better Than Their Own:

A truthful lover will know your joys better than their own. For them, making you smile or even laugh will be a piece of cake as they will know all the tips and tricks to get in your head. And that is how soul-mates should be, shouldn’t they?

Having someone around who knows you better than themselves is one of the best feelings in the world. You will know when you have that feeling; it cannot be missed at all.

  1. Not Ashamed of Their Inner Child:

Having a fun-filled relationship is the goal, besides having a long-lasting one.

Dancing around each other at times of joy, crying like a baby when sad and cracking the silliest of jokes just to be told that they were silly is what a fun relationship with your soulmate should be about.

If they are not ashamed of letting their inner child out in front of you, they are perfectly comfortable with you and that is something mandatory for them to be your soulmate.

  1. Friends With Your Friends:

A good, communicative relationship is all about sharing the love with as many people as possible; not exactly including them in your bedroom affairs, no, but including them in the circle you grow with time. If he or she is your soulmate, they will not fear getting along your friends.

For them, your friends will be equivalent to their friends, given that when you want to be alone with your own friends, they won’t trespass. Everyone will be friends with everyone’s friends. Friendship FTW.

  1. Open To Compromises:

There will be less chances of disagreeing with your soulmate for they will have the same opinions as you but it is impossible for two people to agree on every single matter, so there will be times when one or even both of you will have to compromise on a decision.

So if they are willing to let their ego go and compromise for you, they are just the right one. Not only does their compromising nature show maturity, but also the lengths they are willing to go to for your sake.