There isn’t a standard list of things that equally applies to all relationships. What works for me, might not work so well for others. For instance, you should see each other as often as possible. But if either of you have way too busy schedules, or it’s a long distance relationship; this might not be possible. That doesn’t necessarily mean you cannot make it work. On the other hand, loyalty is a necessary constant in all sorts of relationships; even if you’re miles apart.
So here are 20 secrets that would help you have the relationship of your life;
Know yourself to know others
Only when you learn to go dig deep within yourself, you begin to learn about others more as well. You’d know how to reach the very depth of people. The more you allow people to connect with you; you’d get to know them better in return.
You alone are responsible for your feelings
Don’t give people the power to control your mind or heart. You’re your own person and perfectly capable of deciding how you feel about certain circumstances or people. Don’t let anyone take that away from you.
Be yourself, at all costs
If someone doesn’t like you, it’s not your responsibility to change their opinion. You shouldn’t have to please anyone. Don’t change yourself just to gain acceptance. Be proud of who you’re. You’re one of a kind. And if people can’t accept you for who you’re, you don’t really need to keep them around.
‘To be in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment’ –Ralph Waldo Emerson