Don't blame the woman he cheated on you with.
The ultimate response to someone cheating in any aspect of life should be to completely eliminate them out of our lives but when it comes to love, our hearts find it difficult to eliminate the person who cheated, for obvious reasons.
It is wrong and not a healthy habit at all; it needs to be changed. You should not, in any way, consider any reasons or make clarifications to yourself to feel better about what happened, because then you will only be doing injustice to yourself.
Out of everything women do when men cheat on them, three of the most common mistakes are mentioned here to help you avoid them if, God forbids, a man ever cheats on you.
You Go Investigating About The Affair:
Being the soft-hearted and so-in-love person that you are, you go investigating about the affair you hear of. Besides being angry and heart-broken, your inner lover who still doubts the news wants to make sure about it only by seeing it with its eyes. Don’t do that; don’t go too deep into the affair once you are sure it is true and is really happening.
You going around confronting people about it will do you no good and will only make you feel worse. As soon as you know you have been cheated on, leave the man and pack your bags; there is no point in doing anything else except for maybe letting your anger out on him or expressing your feelings some other way. - Continue reading on next page