That’s the real question we ask ourselves in every relationship. Is it love or likeness? Nowadays, unlike fairytales, we are more worried about the fact if we really like them. Not the other way around. Is it a relationship that is bound to go on forever? Unlike popular belief, true love is not rare, I believe that. We all, at some point in life, fall for someone but let them slip away for so many reasons. One of which is that we didn’t realise it was love, then. If you are in a relationship at the moment and are trying to look for clarity, here are a few questions which we have designed after talking to many couples.
1. IS HIS/HER SOUL YOUR FIRST PRIORITY?
When you truly love someone, this is something that changes in your life without you realising it.
You start to think of your partner in every step you take. Whether it is a plan the gang is making for tonight or it is about planning to move to another city. All your big and small plans will involve your partner’s point of view being tremendously involved.
It is when you automatically start to believe in them more than you believe in anyone else or your own self for that matter. Don’t think that I mean your partner starts to govern your life, NO. You start to find in them, with utter trust, the guidance we all need in every step.
Your partner becomes your priority when you truly love them. Cancelling a plan to stay in with your partner starts to seem like a preferable choice.