4 common mistakes that hurt your relationship

Misty Renee Posted a year ago
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All of us want to find that one person, the person who can fill the gap in our lonely heart, the person who can bring back the excitement and love in our life, and the person who would be only ours. But when we finally find that one person and when all of our heart’s desires get fulfilled, we get careless.

We don’t commit fully to making that relationship work. We don’t put in all our efforts to making that one person stay. And we resort to the following 5 mistakes that can badly hurt our relationship. Read ahead and reflect on whether you’ve been a little careless with your relationship as well:

  1. You simply tune out your partner once you’ve had your say

Some people misinterpret communication in a relationship as just talking: talking about their own problems, talking about their own life, and talking about their own feelings! Communication is always a two-way street. You need to listen as much as you talk. You need to invest your time and attention towards finding out how your partner feels, what they’re thinking, and how their life is going.

If you don’t listen intently to your partner when they talk, if you don’t maintain eye contact and show them you’re interested in whatever they have to say, and if you don’t react appropriately to the stories they’re so excited about, then how long do you expect them to keep talking and sharing with a person like that? *Continue reading on next page*