It truly takes a lot of strength to face a problem and end it. Not many people do it. The easier and the most common way of dealing with the problem is to suddenly disappear so you don’t have to deal with it at all.
Living an honest life takes effort. It requires a decision to pursue it and some action steps to get it started. Also, being honest often makes you appear as an insensitive person but that is just how you might appear to others. You truly know the value of being honest.
Honesty is a powerful tool and like most tools, it can be used for both good and evil. It can be used to bring about a good change in someone’s life or it can easily tear someone down.
We often misunderstand the reasons honest men give for anything in the relationship. Their opinions might be too straightforward and not honey-coated, that’s why they might pinch us a bit but if you try and look deeper into their intentions, you will find nothing but purity.
Such honest people care about you too much to ever lie to you, they think like they owe their honesty to their partners and if they are not doing that, it is as good as cheating on them. Even if you two are parting ways, they will always give the right reason for it and not just say ‘I am not good for you’ or ‘ you are too good for me’ just to escape the whole situation without breaking hearts or shedding tears. They will face the situation and give the real reason for it.
To understand them better, here is why they always man up and give a reason to leave.
1. THEY WANT EVERYTHING ON THE TABLE
They don’t like uncertainty because they know uncertainty means hope for the future and that might further cause disappointment for one or both of them. They believe in burning down all the boats so there is no other way but to go ahead and move on.
Also, they want to be upfront so both sides understand that it is never one person’s fault. It takes a lot of guts to do that.