40 questions you should ask your partner if you want to get closer

Misty Renee Posted a year ago
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Feel like this person may be the one? Feeling closer to this person with each passing day? Well, here are 40 basic questions to ask them if you think you really want to have a long-term relationship and a secure future with this person.

  1. What do you think are you best and worst traits?
  2. Has someone ever broken your heart?
  3. Are you still in touch with any one of your exes?
  4. Do you think it’s possible to be just friends with people of the other sex?
  5. What are your true feelings on monogamy?
  6. How exactly do you define cheating?
  7. Do you have a sexual fantasy which hasn’t been fulfilled yet?
  8. If you win the lottery, what will be the first thing you do?
  9. What’s the first happy memory that you remember?
  10. What is the scariest experience you’ve ever had?
  11. What is your biggest fear in life?
  12. What calms you down in the middle of a rough situation?
  13. What’s the best advice you have ever received?
  14. Who do you look up to the most in life? Why?
  15. Who are you most comfortable in confiding with?
  16. Is it easy for you to keep a secret?
  17. Do you think it’s justified to lie in certain situations?
  18. Do you keep things bottled up or do you like sharing everything?
  19. Is there something you’re extremely passionate about in life?
  20. Do you live to work or work to live?
  21. What if one of us was offered a job opportunity requiring a lot of travel?
  22. Would you agree to move with me if I had to relocate for my job?
  23. Do you prefer running your own business or working for someone?
  24. Would you work during day time or night time, if the choice was yours?
  25. How many hours of sleep do you need to fully function?
  26. What is your ideal pet?
  27. How often do you meet or talk to your family members?
  28. Have you ever lost a loved one?
  29. What’s the ideal weather you would like to settle in?
  30. What would be your dream vacation?
  31. Would you be up for a vacation for other couples?
  32. At what age do you expect to buy your own house?
  33. What is your source of everyday motivation?
  34. Are you a careful planner or a spontaneous individual?
  35. Do you believe in an afterlife or rebirth?
  36. How many children would you want to have?
  37. How important are birthdays and anniversaries for you?
  38. Is there a household chore you like to do?
  39. Do you spend all your income or save some of it for the future?
  40. What do you think is the ideal age for retirement?

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What would you ask your partner if you were looking to get closer to them? Let me know in the comments down below!