We often sit and think about our past relationships and what actually went wrong with them. Sometimes, it’s not something you did or your partner did, at times its just how you both handled a situation together. Most of the fights are due to misunderstanding and mishandling of the whole situation. Here are a few ways people fight or argue that ruin the relationship.
5. THE CONSTANT BREAK-UP AND MAKE-UP FIGHTS
Fights where you break up and after a few days, make up. A lot of couple I knew did this and sadly broke up, eventually. Such couples break up on every fight which, basically, does not end a fight through reaching a solution. Instead, they just give each other time to forget about the argument or the thing that caused it.
A couple that only has such kind of fights will have a relationship full of unresolved issues. Unresolved issues give birth to a thousand more problems. By the time you realise that, you both have given up on the relationship. Secondly, such kind of fights will never let the couple feel like a couple. Every time they fight, the two go their own separate ways till they have forgotten about the problem. This way, a couple will never get used to sticking with each other through thick and thin.
4. THE VIOLENT FIGHTS
Such fights are never logical. A logical argument does not require either of the two to try and impose their point by raising their voice or hand. A violent fight ends because one of the two is too violent and the other partner gives in. This is not a solution. Do not consider such a fight as a resolved fight, such fights have only intimidated one of the partners. When somebody is suppressed or is a victim to an abusive partner, they might let things go in their partner’s favour out of fear but one day, when they become tired of being a victim for so long, they retaliate in the worst kind of ways. So why push something that is heading for doom? – Continue reading on next page