The whole concept of a guy who never grows old and mature is pretty encouraged and even took in a romantic manner in our society nowadays. It is considered to be sexy or simply said that it’s the way men are. Unfortunately, women are the ones that have to pay the price for all this because they are the ones that have to basically keep an eye on these ‘men’. She does all the work and he’s the one chilling and being ‘just the way he is.’
This may even describe the fact that men benefit more than women in the marriage. It is simple and pretty straightforward… you see a man happy after marriage, has a better physical health after marriage, and even get wealthier in most cases. The same can’t be said for the women, women only benefit from the marriage if it’s a long-term one and it also depends on the value of the relationship.
Imagine that you start to date someone who you will have to carry along with you for your whole life or someone who you can rely on. What seemed exciting and sexy in the beginning can eventually turn out to be something deadweight that you will have to deal with your whole life, including looking after your children and your job as well.
Here are 5 simple ways you can tell if you are dating this ‘man child’ you will have to look after or not!
You are always picking up after him!
This is literally everything from the very common stuff like, grabbing his garments and food around your mutual living space—to the more genuine ones, for example, covering him by paying his debts, or even selecting Christmas or birthday presents for his friends or family members. At the point when something turns out badly with his work or companions, you are the person who, again, saves his a*s.
You end up rationalizing him, legitimizing his poor decisions, and attempting to see things from his point of view more than your own. At the point when individuals don't completely grow up, they try to load most of their work to those nearest to them. It can be okay, however in the event that you are rationalizing, stop and consider why you're really doing this all for a developed man?
2. When you try to talk about kids or responsibility, it brings frenzy to his eyes!
When you have dated for quite a while, you raise the questions about your future together. And after that, you instantly see alarms raise and a yearning to escape. Faulting your strategy, you pledge to yourself to bring it up all the more calmly next time. At that point, you bring it up in a clowning way. But you look over and see that same frenzy in his eyes and inside a half-hour of your joke, he leaves the room. On the off-chance that after a sensible measure of time, you can't raise the future on any level and have a sensible talk about it, you are in a relationship with a ‘man child.’ *Continue reading to next page*