5 Things You Learn When You Break Up With Your First Love

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First love and breakup, the best and worst experience of anyone’s life. We all have gone through this and we all know how it feels. What starts as a never-ending love story ends as an unexpected utterly painful heartache. First love is like a heart full of hope and faith that nothing in the world can break. You feel like yours is the divine kind of relationship they talk about in the movies. But you are abruptly pulled to the ground when the only thing you thought was stable comes to an end.

No one really expects their first love to end, it’s one of those few shocks that send you in denial. Many people are actually lucky enough to have their first love as their only love but for others, I’d still go ahead and call them lucky, people like us, we are destined to lose the first love of our lives and are bound to learn a few hard lessons of our lives. I will go ahead and call myself fortunate enough to learn some of the most important lessons of my life when I lost my first love to, well, life. It was likely that, that relationship wouldn’t have lasted for a second in the real world. So I viewed my situation in a positive light and here is what I learned.

1. Nothing Is Forever

It was childish of me to think that my first relationship would last forever, nothing does. Now, that doesn’t mean we give up and take a backseat in life because life will happen the way it is supposed to happen, NO!
In fact, get on your feet again and make it worth it while. Why wait another day to tell someone you love them or how much they mean to you. Make sure you enjoy every moment of your relationship and cherish it because sometimes life happens and sometimes death. Parting could be either ways, so make every second count!