Honesty is very important in a relationship, it goes without saying. There is another kind of honesty though. The type of honesty that is not synonymous with the truth. You don’t have to disclose information that will incite your partner.
Are you sitting with a hot friend of yours? Only tell about her or him if you are sure that she will be your friend in the future as well. If it’s only a one-time thing and you are just going to meet her once in your life, you don’t have to mention her.
However, being honest to you is very important as well. Do not lie to yourself about how you feel about your partner.
If you are feeling that you are getting distant and are not getting the attention from your partner, then don’t lie to yourself that everything will be better with time, go meet them or tell them how you feel. Time only heals your soul if you do your part of the effort.
5. Send gifts or letters
I know this is the 21st century but, trust me, when something appears in your mailbox; it definitely has a different feel. It makes the other person realize that you did the effort on your part. Also, surprising your partner can help you a lot. It will keep them interested. No one expects a love letter in this age. Do the unexpected!
The other thing is gifts. From giving, we receive. Every gift has a sentimental value. Sometimes, materialistic things can create love. I know it sounds stupid. Your gift doesn’t have to be a Lamborghini Gallardo, pfft, well, that would be something huh? All I’m saying is that your effort to give something to you partner will matter to them and exalt your love in their eyes. I once sent a scotch tape and we still laugh about it.
In the end, I just want to say that if you really love your partner, you will find ways to be with them. You will find the strength to keep your relationship alive.
You just have to trust your abilities and one day after all this distance, when your partner is finally in front of your eyes; you will know it in your heart that he or she was worth the wait.