Ever heard of the term ‘the one that got away’?
Basically, it’s used to describe a person with whom someone could have had a great relationship with, but it all ended. A lot of people remember such a person. The truth is, there’s always a pretty specific reason why they got away. This isn’t an open case where you’re left wondering what went wrong for years. This is a pretty shut case because whether it was because of you or because of them, there was a reason regardless.
This article is specifically directed towards all the women who ruin potential relationships by doing some very unreasonable things. Not everyone is the same; these reasons might or might not be relevant to your case. However, they are a generalization of things women often do so your reason might be somewhere along the lines of these. So, without any further ado, here they are:
1- Over-analysing the situation:
I personally know a ton of women who over assess or over analyze any situation they’re presented with. The problem might have been relatively simple to get over, but because they over-thought the solution, it turned into a huge mess. When new love is blossoming, people tend to live in the now. They don’t think top much about the future and are more concerned with actually starting a relationship. Yet, some people have a tendency to over complicate this.
Don’t get me wrong here, it’s a good thing to think of the future but sometimes you need to focus more on the present. Instead of asking yourself, ‘when will we get married?’, try thinking of where will you two go out tonight. Everything has a specific time. There will eventually be a time to get married etc but right now that’s in the distant future and it isn’t worth stressing yourself out for.
This does more harm than good at this point. Here you have a guy who’s slowly falling for you only to be driven away by you wanting so much more right now. Again, don’t get me wrong, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being upfront about all the things you want. However, you two aren’t even in a relationship yet! What’s the point in wanting so much right now? – Continue reading on next page