This article is written by a friend of mine who recently came out of a very painful relationship, she wanted to express a lot of things and I let her do it here. I'm going to hand it over to her now. Be advised, she's pretty ticked off.
Men, you know you’re far from perfect and you’re also aware of the things that bother her to a certain extent. You’re not supposed to change yourself to her liking, but you need to refrain yourself from doing things that might possibly damage the relationship in some way or the other. And the following things aren’t too much to give up anyway;
Drooling over other women
Even though you think you might be in control of yourself around your girlfriend, but you could be wrong all the same. She notices the slightest of slips. She is painfully aware of how your gaze follows the hottie walking by you. You might not hear her complain about it, but she definitely doesn’t like it. When you’re with her, don’t get sidetracked by anything or anyone. She deserves undivided attention.
Not being comfortable with her having a social life
To have a healthy relationship, you two should be able to be entirely yourselves, have your space and have a life outside the relationship. That would mean her hanging out with her friends, and you hanging out with yours. You wouldn’t want to give up on your night out with the guys, don’t ask her to give up seeing her friends. If you’re going to keep her from seeing her friends, that’d mean she’d be spending more time with you, and you might have to sacrifice a little game time or something. You might not really like that. - Continue reading on next page
Not keeping up with her in bed
Among everything else, you should be able to fulfil her intimate needs as well. You’d want the same from her, so it’s only fair to improve your game. And you might not be particularly pleased with yourself anyway if you fail to satisfy her. You must know what she likes, and how she likes it.