Did you ever stay in a relationship with a person who doesn’t deserve you? I have, and I know how horrible it feels.
Staying in a relationship with a person who can never treat you the way a loving partner does, who doesn’t include you in their life like you do, and who simply doesn’t even care about you, can feel like a sweet little lie. All the people around you believe that you’re happy just because you’re in a relationship. But deep down inside, you are well aware that something just isn’t right. Deep down inside, you know that it would be better if you were alone and single.
Stop ignoring this feeling. Don’t make the mistake of ignoring this voice in your head that’s constantly reminding you that you deserve someone better. Because the voice is right. You really do deserve someone better. You deserve a person who will love you for who you are, a person who can treat you with respect, and a person who will be there when you feel down. You deserve to have fulfilling relationship, one that makes you smile, and not cry.
You might feel scared of being alone. I get that. I had the same feelings when I decided to finally let go of a person who never deserved me. The one thing you need to do in a situation like this is to stop focusing on these fears. Instead, start focusing on all the wonderful possibilities that come with staying alone.
There are a number of reasons why staying alone is much better than staying with someone who doesn’t deserve you. Here are a few of them:
1. Someone who doesn’t deserve you will end up draining all your energy
A supportive and healthy relationship is one of the most amazing things that can happen to a person. Knowing that your significant other will always love and support you will give you positive energy all day long. However, if you are in a relationship with a person who doesn’t deserve you and treats you badly, your energy levels will badly suffer. - Continue reading on next page