This one is for those of you who are going through a really rough time in your relationships, for those of you who still know how to truly love someone and just don’t want to let go. A friend of mine recently told me that his girlfriend is in a very difficult spot in life. Her family doesn’t like him and she just doesn’t know how to fix it or what to do about it, she doesn’t even know what decision to take because she loses in every condition. He told me they’re talking about having a peaceful and mutual breakup but it always leads to both of them being super sad about it because they both love each other very much.
They’ve tried every possible thing but nothing works, her family just isn’t budging from their spot. I told him to stay strong and to not give up. You know why? Because life always finds a way. I have a lot of faith in this that “if something is meant to happen, it will happen no matter what”. I told him that if the two of them are meant to be together, they will end up together regardless of what happens, and if they’re not meant to be together then they’d either not end up together or they will break apart pretty soon. So I told him to not think negatively and to keep his head up. So this is going to be a list of six reasons, reasons why you need to hold on tight to that relationship if you’re going through a rough patch or a tough situation. Let’s begin.
6. The level of emotions you two share
Think about it, is it really worth it to try to let go and move on when you know about the enormous emotional bond you share with your partner? It takes a lot of time and effort to develop those sort of emotions for someone, to develop a very strong emotional bond with someone, and you get weak when you try to break it because it has a huge part of you inside of it. Surely you can face a few problems with each other for the sake of that bond, it surely holds that much importance in your lives. Keep holding on to it, don’t give up. It takes a lot of time to develop this bond and mere seconds to break it.
5. The Memories
You two have definitely shared an insane amount of memories with each other. Think about them, do they make you smile? Do they make you feel all comfortable and loved inside? Do they make you feel like you belonged with them, like you actually were made for each other? If yes, then you need to make sure you make plenty more of such memories by staying with them and holding on strong against whatever comes your way. Sure, life is hard, life is difficult, but nothing good in life ever comes easy, you have to fight for what you love or you’re a quitter who gave up on love. Don’t be a quitter, make more memories, together.