You have to be able to give her butterflies in her stomach without her even wanting it. You have to be supportive of her goals, and you have to respect her desires for self-actualization.
Relationships are all about synergy and cohesion among individuals. It’s all about being able to find someone with whom you can mesh well. If you’re able to find someone who can complement your personality, and who can make you a better person as a whole, then you best not let that lady go.
This post is dedicated to those men who think they need a woman who is strong, independent, and is able to stand her own ground. Most men are attracted to the new-age woman who no longer needs a man to take care of herself. They want to land a lady who can make a name for herself doing whatever she wants in life without the help of any man.
Landing a strong woman can be a difficult task. These ladies are independent and tend to not feel like they need a man by their side. If you want a strong lady to fall for you, you’re going to have to approach the courtship differently. You have to be able to make her weak in the knees for you. You have to be able to give her butterflies in her stomach without her even wanting it. You have to be supportive of her goals, and you have to respect her desires for self-actualization.
You have to give her space when she asks for it and you have to be a good support-system. More than these things, there are also some things you have to avoid doing if you want to win her love.
Here are 6 signs you’re going to let a strong lady slip away.
1. You don’t take the initiative to kick things off with her.
A strong woman wants a man who is assertive and goes after the things that he wants. In this case, if you are upfront regarding your interest in her, she’ll respect that. If you actually make the effort to kick things off and shrug off the risks of rejection, she’ll definitely like that about you. It’s a hit-or-miss at this point, but she’s definitely worth that risk. You know that old cliché? You miss 100% of the shots that you don’t take. Just take a chance and go after her. Being shy and timid will definitely not take you anywhere.
2. You baby her too much and don’t respect her ability to take care of herself.
A strong and independent woman wants to be able to take care of herself. Yes, it’s okay to express your desires to be there for her and act as a support-system, but you also have to give her the space to be her own person. She has her own personal goals and aspirations and you don’t want to get in the way. If you go deeper into a relationship, perhaps she will start to restructure her goals around you but you have to let her make that decision on her own. You can’t be the one who forces yourself into her life without her asking. – Continue reading on the next page