To find a good partner is hard, to find the “One” is harder. To let go of a good partner is sad but to let go of The One is, well, stupidity and a lot of us commit to this stupidity. Some of us realise it and undo it but for some it’s just too late. We get scared of the commitment or might feel like we aren’t ready for it, it’s too soon and whatnot but the truth is that it is generally a scary thought, it is the biggest decision of your life and you are bound to feel scared. Yet, you should know that you truly are a real man or woman if you face that scary thought and fight it back with the love you have for that person.
Here, we might just be focusing on men today but this goes out to everyone who has that perfect partner in their lives but is only a step away from truly committing to them. Love will always outweigh any and every scary thought or doubt that comes to your mind but it takes sheer will to do so. So here are a few things that I believe a real man does when he finds his perfect one.
There are many kinds of people out there with different personality traits and little idiosyncrasies that set them apart from each other and make them into the people they are. Love is always unconditional and you always need to realize that a person who has it in him to see beyond all your imperfections and brittle edges, he will be the one who is going to be there for you through thick and thin.
However, there are some definitive traits that he will show that will make him the ideal guy. Many people can survive with other people but not many can live happily with one another. I’m not saying that you will always be happy throughout your life; I’m just saying that a real guy will know that happiness is worth fighting for if he has you alongside him. Here are some traits that a real man will have that will set him apart from all other guys but always remember that the only thing that matters is unconditional love.
At the end of the day this unconditional love will transform him into a better person and give him impeccable strength to face anything with you.
1. HE ISN’T SCARED OF COMMITTING
When he finds the perfect girl, he will have the guts to hold on to her. He would not let his mind trick him into thinking otherwise. Committing is a scary thought as I have said before but if you truly love someone and they mean to you the most, then you can actually push away these thoughts and accept that person in your life. *Continue reading on next page*