6 Things That Can Ruin a Perfectly Good Relationship

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A relationship takes time and effort to build, but it takes a lot more to keep it going strong and healthy. No relationship dies in a day and the moment you see more of the mistakes of your partner, the more uninteresting the relationship becomes and the bitterer you are. Also, we often forget while judging our partner, our own actions. Where we evaluate every effort and every intention behind that effort we forget evaluate our own steps and efforts that we are doing to make this relationship work.

Thus, when suddenly, one day you start complaining to your partner of the things they have been doing wrong, they tell you a butt load of things you haven’t been doing right. These things might, at the moment, seem completely irrational to you, but remember, where there is fire, there is smoke.

So now, when you have accepted that you and your partner are not perfect people, it's time to start working on your own shortcomings. An absolute change could be difficult but a positive adjustment is possible.

So, to save your relationship before the heated argument happens, read these most common things that couples say ruined their relationships. See what might be lacking in your relationship and fix it before it's too late. Let's begin.

  1. Unrealistic Expectations

Now, this is the first and the most common reason for relationships to end. Every relationship is based on give and take. May it be emotions, actions or time. You expect certain things from your partner. Problems emerge when these expectations become unrealistic and the partner feels crushed under the weight of these expectations and will soon start falling short of the energy and intention to keep up with your expectations. When you see more of his/her faults, there will always be something to complain about and the more complains you have more the relationship would lose its value. - Continue reading on the next page