6 things to NOT do when trying to win your ex girlfriend back

Kaetlyn Summers Posted 2 years ago
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First of all... don't.

Sometimes, you let a girl go because you think that you’re not compatible enough and that the both of you would be much happier alone, but two months pass and you’ve never been more miserable and you realise that you have made a grave mistake. You need her back, the only question is- how? How do you win her back when you have made her hate you?

Let’s be real, you’re not Matthew McConaughey from ‘Ghosts of Girlfriend's Past’- no spirits of jilted lovers are going to appear before you and make you realise what you did wrong in relationships and how to fix your mistakes. You need to be honest to yourself and remember never to do the following while trying to win her back.

1. Calling and texting her all the time

We know, you really badly want to hear her voice but you need to avoid grabbing your phone and dialing her number which is conveniently imprinted in your mind. 80% of the people who want their exes back, continuously text and call their partners and after some time, their partner stops texting back and answering their phone.

Every time you call your ex, you’re making them think that you’re needy and miserable without her- which you are, but she doesn’t need to know that. When she sees you as needy and pathetic, you become unattractive in her mind, eliminating possibilities of you and her ever getting back together.