Contrary to popular belief in men, independent women are not hard to win over. They are just not your typical cute-pink-dress girl-next-door. She is different and that is exactly what makes her a lot more exciting to explore and win over.
Being an independent woman, I can tell you a few misconceptions about us. No, we will not fight over the bill, for it to be divided, always. We actually like men who can take us out on a date, take care of us but, at times, when we really want to pay for the both of us, somewhere, let us, once in a while.
We will not discourage you, if you go on and act a bit controlling, from time to time. Sometimes, we do need that kind of control in our life. Someone who can take over the wheels for a while, while we relax.
We certainly don’t mind being at home making a nice home cooked dinner for you, if we feel that’s what you really want. In fact, if you really try and explain us the logic of what you want us to do, we might just do it without being stubborn, which again is a baseless perception about us.
We are just different and let’s just say that you can win us over like any other girl, it’s just that the route to our hearts includes a small detour. Embrace it, and you’ve gotten us hooked!
1. Listen and let yourself be heard
Can not deny that independent women like to be heard and given importance to. Actually, every girl does but independent women, a little more. So make it a point that you hear her out and she doesn’t feel neglected. Also, make your point as well. Independent women respect people who stand by their words and speak their mind. Trust me, if you put up an equally strong case, they will take your words positively and listen to you.