Men are creatures of impulse! Nothing will ever stop them from doing something if they set their heart to it. If it’s something that they really want to do and you didn’t approve off it. Chances are that they will do it any way and not tell you about it. Let your wild horse free every once in a while so that he has a chance to be himself.
Boxing him up will only, push him over the edge, this will damage your relationship and his lies will end it!
They want to Avoid Drama and Keep the Peace
Let’s be honest, most women get upset and react dramatically, when men are telling the truth. It’s already very difficult for a man to get in touch with his feelings. You might get very upset when they tell you what they expect out of their relationship with you. The aftermath of a woman’s reaction is that, her man starts lying to her.
They just sugarcoat things and tell women what they want to hear, to avoid facing the drama. Men are smart beings; they quickly learn to adapt their behavior to maintain the peace. It’s not that they actually want to lie; they only do that to avoid heated arguments, disagreements, and potential scream offs.
They are too scared to hurt Your Feelings
Men also lie in order to cover up the truth they suspect that you may not like. If a man knows not telling the truth is harmless enough and causes less drama, why wouldn’t he want to do it? A man doesn’t speak his mind fearing that it might hurt his woman’s feelings. To put it in simple words, he is confused about how you’ll react to his dismay (as you have proved to him time and again that being honest never works out with you) so, instead of saying he is having dinner with his old friend (female friend) back from college, he would say, he would be late from work.
Similarly, women often complain that they don’t like their bodies or how fat they look in a particular dress; the reply they expect should be like ‘What nonsense? You are perfect the way you are”. The last thing he wants is to hurt your feelings or trigger a flood of tears by making you feel awful. He doesn’t want to hurt you, Period! – Continue reading on next page