7 Things Men Foolishly Do That Make Them Lose Strong Women

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Guys, don't make these common mistakes, don't lose the woman of your dreams!

People are natural-born screw-ups. That much is certain. None of us are perfect and life will always have to be composed of us learning on the job. None of us have all the answers from the start, and there is no handbook on how to live life. We will all make our mistakes whether it be with our studies, our careers, or our relationships. There is no sure-fire way for us to avoid making mistakes. It’s as if it’s hardwired into our DNA for us to always be in a perpetual state of wrong. But that’s okay. That’s part of growth. We live and we learn in life and in love.

In relationships, you won’t always find success. You’ll fall in love with the wrong people; you’ll fall in love at the wrong times; and in some cases, you’ll find the right person at the right time, but you won’t be treating her the right way. For the first two cases, it can be difficult to help you out. But for the latter case, maybe you don’t have to be such a big screw-up in that aspect.

Picture this: you’re in a loving and stable relationship with a woman who exhibits a strong personality. She is goal-oriented and driven. She has dreams and aspirations; and she is uncompromising in her pursuits. You love that about her and you want to do everything in your power to keep her. How do you do that? Make sure you avoid being a disrespectful and belittling misogynistic idiot who does stupid things. Here are 7 things men foolishly do that make them lose strong women:

1. You don’t make an effort to advance in the relationship.

Strong women are attracted to strong men. Don’t be shy about it. Make the first move and introduce yourself to her in a confident manner. If you’re already in a relationship together, be forward about your expectations for each other. If the time is right, let her know that you’re willing to move to the next levels in your relationship. Always take the initiative, and she’ll appreciate that. She doesn’t want a man who cowers under the pressure or the fear of rejection.

2. You try playing hard to get.

She’s a strong and independent woman, remember? She doesn’t need you. She’s perfectly fine of making her way through the world without your help. If you act like you’re not interested, it really won’t bother her. Stop playing hard to get and start going after what you want: her love. She won’t even think twice about moving on from you when you show disinterest in her. - Continue reading on the next page