Welcome to the dark side of relationships, being cheated on. Let’s face it, all of us have been through it at least once in our lives. We come across people who end up traumatising us forever, who leave us to fend for ourselves and to get through it on our own, we are left with nothing but pain and suffering until we completely move on (which takes a lot of time). Just like you, I’ve also been cheated on. I’ve been cheated on five times in my life (you think I’d learn to judge people better by now) and now I’m kind of self-sufficient when it comes to the healing process. But the first time I got cheated on, that was just something else, I was depressed for around six months and I stopped meeting my friends and going out, it was a pretty tough time for me but I got out of it eventually (life goes on).

So, in light of the dark traumas people go through, I’m going to list down 7 signs, unmistakable signs that tell you you’re being cheated on. But one disclaimer before I go on, do NOT take this list to heart if all of the points don’t match, you will end up being paranoid, take this list lightly. Let’s begin.

7. They are always eager to fight

If your partner has been fighting more than usual, if they seem to get ticked off by the smallest of things, if they seem to be happily available for every argument, it’s most likely that you’re being cheated on. This happens when someone is guilty of something they did, they tend to protect themselves at the slightest sign of being caught or anywhere remotely close to it, so they end up lashing out at the smallest of things.