7 ways to make sure you end up with someone who adores you

Misty Renee Posted a year ago
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Have you ever been with a person who brightens up your life just by being a part of it? This person who isn’t even trying to impress you or make you like them, this person that you can be with all day and never get tired of and this person you absolutely adore in every sense of the word. All of us want to be that person for someone; all of us want to be loved in that unconditional way and all of us want a life partner who would love, respect and adore us.

All we have to do to make that happen is to follow these simple steps:

  1. Be true to yourself

Do you know when people find you the most beautiful? When you’re being yourself! When you let out that spontaneous laughter. When you talk so passionately about the things you love. When you stop caring about all the judgement and all the gossip and you start living life just the way you want to. So stop trying to hide your uneven teeth behind a fake smile, stop keeping all your real thoughts and opinions to yourself, stop trying to copy that actor you idolise and be true to who you really are.

All your flaws and all the parts of you that make you insecure are the things your partner wants to explore the most. They are the things that make you real, the things that make you stand out, and the things that will make your partner fall deeply in love with you.

  1. Practice honesty

Be honest in the things that really matter and even in the things that might not. Let them know about the things that upset you. They’re here to listen and understand, not to guess what might be going on in your mind. If they have an opinion you don’t agree with, let them know your point of view. If you realize that you’ve made a mistake, gear up the courage to admit it instead of lying and covering it up. And if you compliment them when they look good, be comfortable enough to let them know when their favorite shoes just don’t match their outfit. *Continue reading to next page*