When you’re in a long distance relationship, you tend to put in a huge amount of time, money, effort and emotions into making it work. This automatically makes you feel that you must really be in love with this person who you’re doing so much for. And if you ever have a fight or face any kind of problems, you blame it on the distance and not on the actual issue at hand.
You believe that everything will turn out to be fine once you meet your better half and since you’ve already done so much for the relationship, you feel like it shouldn’t go to waste and you should hold on to it just a little bit longer. This thinking is really great and selfless but sometimes, it just clouds your mind when distance isn’t the actual problem, your relationship is.
So look out for these obvious signs that it’s time to just stop and let go:
You don’t ever feel like talking
If you’re in a really busy routine and have a lot on your mind, it makes sense if you miss a call or don’t reply to a text. However, if you’ve reached a point where the last thing on your mind is to have a long and relaxing talk with your partner even when you have all the time in the world, then there’s probably very little importance of your relationship left in your life.