By the end of each year everything that has had a negative impact on your life should come to an end too. Some habits, pains, addictions and people are just wrong for you and you need to let them go. 2012 was especially a hard year for me. I lost my job, almost broke up with my partner, lost most of my friends and had to witness deaths of many close ones. Let’s say that when I thought things couldn’t get any worse they managed to do just that. It was the hardest time of my life. I had gone through so much heart ache and pain that I decided to let some things go. Yes the change was hard to make but it transformed my life. I am so happy that I let those things go. Since then it has become kind of a tradition for me. On every 15TH of December I make a list of things I need to let go off by the end of each year I am almost done with the list. I must say life hasn’t ever been better.

  1. Anything that you get addicted to is bad for you except of course your partner

I was addicted to watching television; I guess I was going through so much in my life that the best defense mechanism for me was to retreat to a world of fantasy. I soon realized that it took too much of me, I was blocking everything out and I shouldn’t have done that. I was investing too much of my time in something useless and pointless. It wasn’t until I blocked this habit out that I realized the amount of time I had on my hands. With the spare time on my hands I made efforts to change my life around and things started to get better.