We’ve all had our hearts broken; we’ve all been betrayed at some point in our lives and we’ve all lost hope and faith in love…perhaps even more than once. Did those things make you give up on love altogether? Did your head and heart tell you to simply leave the notion of experiencing being in love again? It’s only natural if you did. It doesn’t, however, change the course of love when it comes your way the second time around.
You will have doubts, whether to trust love again or not. Logic and reason might not help you there. You might still be so stuck up blaming love the first time when it went wrong. But don’t blame love because it wasn’t love that broke you. The person who didn’t know how to love you right broke you. However, there’s always a silver lining, whether you like it or not. And that tells you that perhaps the second time around, cupid has hit its arrows right and love won’t be a bad ride like it was the first time.
Here are 9 reasons why your second love is better than your first; why it’s the real one.
1. It makes you stronger after you’ve been broken
Whatever is dealt with strength leaves the biggest impact on our souls. Second love is real because it teaches you to trust love once again, thanks to the brilliant qualities in your second love. It teaches you that you’re capable of loving again and loving harder this time. It’s there to pick up the pieces, after your first love broke you.
2. It gives you hope
It shows you the light after you’ve been in the dark for too long. Even if you feel hope is toxic, second love will teach you that you might have a chance. That you deserve better. That all is not lost. Second love will be the hope that guides you home.