At first you think you’ve fallen in love with a perfectly normal lady who will do right by you. But as you go deeper and deeper into the relationship, you start to discover more about each other and you don’t like what you see.
We’ve had our share of experiences with crazy girlfriends. Things can get pretty ugly. At first you think you’ve fallen in love with a perfectly normal lady who will do right by you. But as you go deeper and deeper into the relationship, you start to discover more about each other and you don’t like what you see.
The deepest and darkest demons start to rear their ugly heads, and the once-perfect girl you thought you knew is now a crazy control freak who wants to micromanage every aspect of your life. How did you let it get this far? Why didn’t you notice the signs early on in the relationship?
That’s your own fault. Maybe your need for love blindsided you to the terrors that lurked behind her eyes. Next time, be wary of the signs and save yourself the horrors of having a possessive girlfriend in the future.
Here are some blatant indications that your girlfriend is overly possessive:
1. She expects you to tell her everything… absolutely everything!
If you sneezed 3 times today, she’ll want to know about it. She asks you what you plan to wear for your date two weeks from now. She would want to know what your best friend’s cousin ordered for lunch last Tuesday. She engrosses herself in the minutest details of your life because she’s obsessed and she’s insecure. She wants to know that you’re not fooling around with her and that you’re taking things seriously. If she starts doing this early in a relationship, get out while you still can.
2. She won’t allow you to hang out with your boys.
There’s absolutely no room for anyone else in your life except for her. You’re not even allowed to spend a night out with your boys because she’s seen too many bro-movies to know how those nights end up. Her imagination runs wild and drives her crazy every time you’re out and about without her. If you do manage to get a night out with your boys, she’s probably going to call you every 45 seconds to check up on you.
3. She accuses you of being selfish when you want alone time.
She doesn’t want you to ever be alone because she’s only ever comfortable when she’s with you. She likes to keep her eye on you constantly. If she could look into your thoughts, she would expect her own image to be there every single hour of every single day. - Continue reading on the next page